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September 24, 2012

Mary asks…

Im going through an eviction process?

Going through eviction process.

i signed a lease with this dude that fell in love with this puppy i rescued and ended up stealing the pup and leaving the place because the manager told me to get the puppy a new home.

the rent was due the next day and the guy disappeared. i have a strong feeling he is still in Los Angeles. he owes me two thousand dollars for breaking something of mine that was very expensive but i suppose that’s a different matter?, and he stole my dog that i was about to find him a home.

one i do not trust him with the dog, when i saw him talk to the dog it was very abusive. I got into a very huge argument with him, and he threatened me that if i didnt keep the dog he would leave.

but on to the eviction process. . .

so here is the scenario.

it was a 2br 2 bath apt. i had him stay in the living room and i stayed in the bedroom, and i rented the other room with permission of the manager. Well when the guy the left, the manager posted a 3 day notice on the door stating to pay or quit. I didn’t have his part of the rent. While i was looking for potential renters, the manager scared the other roommate into thinking that the sheriffs were going to come and kick us out in three days……, so he left. its been over a week now, now…I explained to the roomate that it is not proper procedure, but seriously, i think that he didnt even want to be here anymore because of the trouble caused by the other roomate.NOW, i am down on the lease’s share, and the other person renting the rooms share. Which comes to about $1000.

i talked to the owner with the guidance of an eviction defense counselor, and he stated that he doesnt care what i am going through, that I should have chosen a better person to live with.

now,. when i got the place, i put in, about $1,000 to the co signers measly $600 and i deposited money when i found the other roommate.

they just gave me a typewritten notice that arrived in the mail yesterday on the pay rent or quit in 3 days that expired yesterday. Now, I am wondering, what my defenses are in this legal matter, because I told the landlord i was going to find someone new, and make up for the rent, but he just gave me this story about mortgage and how i should just leave. I want to keep the place, it is an ideal location and i like the neighborhood. plus i do not want to spend time and more money getting another place when i have so much money already deposited and will not be getting it back if i do leave.

i need help .. . point blank….

ask me more questions that come up in your mind.

thanks
yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa….but i forgot to mention is that the apartment is infested with cochroaches…..and accroding to section 1941.1….i have the right to withhold rent…….money……….yea…..u aint a lawyer… keep your opinions to yourself……
i will have the health inspectors, come and try to fine the fuck ou of them for whatever fucking bad shit they do. yesterday they managed to get away with renovating an apartment with spary can toxic material…..i have no idea… how… but im sure they will fuck up again….

Administrator answers:

You have no defense. Since you are the person on the lease, you are responsible for paying. The fact that your roommate skipped out on you does not matter at all. If you cannot pay, then you will have to move.

Daniel asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guys she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. I choose the other guy, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and find him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday she comes to my house knocking, i haven’t even seen her since she told me she didn’t want to be with me. I welcome her inside and she goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she did that to me and NOW wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). She is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us! We are NOT captain save a hoe!

Administrator answers:

Because at the end of the day we are all just members of the animal kingdom with higher than average intelligence.

By natures law, the young fertile female will seek to breed with the alpha male to assure the best genes are passed on. It comes down to how an alpha male is detected, in human nature the alpha male is a cocky guy, physically dominating (or mentally), and very confident. This is coincidentally the same type of attitude that some snobby “bad boy” teenager exhibits. Therefore most young women will want to be with said “bad boy”.

Also by natures law, the alpha male will not stick around to take care of the offspring, he will move on to pass on his genes to other willing females. The female then seeks out someone to provide her and her offspring with food/shelter and to build a loving family, this is the willing beta male of the community, he assures the offspring reach maturity and if he’s lucky is allowed to pass on his genes, and the cycle continues, the next generation of alphas and betas do the same exact thing..

This is pretty much it in a nutshell. It is basic human behaviour that we will have for the rest of our existence. I expect to get thumbed down by angry people who refuse to accept we are just animals and this is written into our genes, but it’s the truth.

Note that unlike most animals we are able to break out of our instincts, at least temporarily, and some women prefer the non bad boy. But this is rare.

Also note that the bad boys of today are NOT actually alpha males, but most ditsy young women can’t tell the difference between the brave fireman/soldier/paramedic/cop/doctor going into work every day and saving lives, and the fake gangster who bought a pair of nike shoes and roams in groups to prey on unsuspecting people. But once they reach maturity they will go for the real alpha male.

Thomas asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guys she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. I choose the other guy, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and find him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday she comes to my house knocking, i haven’t even seen her since she told me she didn’t want to be with me. I welcome her inside and she goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she did that to me and NOW wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). She is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us! We are NOT captain save a hoe!
Cool Kelly! I work as a cisco network engineer in the IT buz also! I must got my CCIE last year in Service Provider!

Administrator answers:

The door swings both ways sweetheart. Men also pick the women who treat them like dirt,

When you’re young and stupid its usually because, you are young and stupid! Its mostly a maturity type thing, you look for in a mate what you think looks good and what looks good for you, you go for a specific “type” rather that what is good for you.

There is the gold digger aspect too. People when they are young also look to what the person has to offer them or what they can do for them. Not everyone but some do, men and women.

I too was guilty of liking the bad boys and ignored men who were actually good to and for me. However as I aged so did my maturity level and learned that the bad boys are only good for so much and usually that’s not even much. Many of them are rude, mean, no goals, no jobs and nothing of a future to look to.

My fiance couldn’t be more different than guys I was attracted to in my younger years. He was a jock in school and I wasn’t into jocks because many of them are douchebag’s but he says he wasn’t the type of jock I was picturing. He was a nerdy jock! Had a 4.0 gpa, so he was the smart jock. Went to college on a academics scholarship (not a sports one) and he was all around a nice guy. He’s now a teacher and coaches sports, he has a good heart, and a future ahead of him, he has a stable job, retirement fund, and an award winning personality, he has a great sense of humor he can make me laugh like no other, things I never looked for or cared about when I was young & stupid.

Now if you think I might be one of the gold diggers I described above, I’m not. I have a masters degree in Information Technology/Computer Science, and I also have a stable job so as far as income, retirement, etc I can do all that for myself.

Edit: I also have a CCNA, CCNP, MSCE, A+, Network+, MCP, HL7 and PACS certifications. HL7 & PACS are healthcare IT certifications. If you can get into healthcare IT its worth it, it pays well!

Lisa asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guys she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. I choose the other guy, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and find him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday she comes to my house knocking, i haven’t even seen her since she told me she didn’t want to be with me. I welcome her inside and she goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she did that to me and NOW wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). She is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us!
@Please try again? Remember her? Not i dont remember. There wasnt one!

Administrator answers:

Unfortunately, there are many women who only want the good guy after the bad one left her to fend for herself with a brood of kids and no education. She made her choices, she made her bed. She has family back East, so that’s where she needs to go now. Plain and simple.

Now – here is where the REAL karma comes in. There probably was a good girl who was interested in you while you were so hung up on this chick who chose the bad guy. Remember her? She’s probably doing very well right now, married to a dentist or a lawyer with 2.5 kids and a nice house. And she still keeps up her appearance and social skills. But you passed her off because you were too hung up on this dumb girl who had no goals other than to be with the bad boy that she thought she could change. (and btw, the good girl I am talking about never had a thought in her mind of changing you, because it was you that she wanted – as you were).

It goes both ways, hun.

Anyway, my answer to your question is to tell this chick to take her kids and go back East to mom and dad. She is not your responsibility. She made her choices.

Sandy asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guy she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. she choose the other guy over me, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and found him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday (after of not talking to her since she didnt want to be with me) she comes to my house knocking. I welcome her inside kinda wondering what the hell does she wants. She sits down and goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she was about picking him over me and she really like me? NOW she wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). Found out she is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her to move in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us! We are NOT captain save a hoe!

Administrator answers:

Honestly, I do not like the comment saying they are sluts. Cause honestly they arent. Sometimes younger women do not seek out the person they are dating, end up having kids and feel stuck with them. Thats when they start realizing what they really wanted.
I ended up going for “looks” on a guy without checking into his background when I was 16, I had gotten kicked out of my house, was staying with an uncle at the time I got with my ex. A year into our relationship after having our first daughter, I found out he was wanted by the police and that he had been in and out of jail before me. I ended up giving him another chance to change, and thats where I had my second daughter. Ended up leaving him after 3 years. Then moved onto the “nice” guy that I met just before my ex who I said I couldnt be with because I wanted my ex. Now I am happier then everything and we have a son together. Its been almost 3 years of happiness :)
We all make mistakes in life, we all learn from them. I agree its not fair to you nice guys, although stuff happens.
I would not let her move in, because it seems shes just doing it because shes in need. But, if you guys had worked things out and talked and worked on stuff, then it may work in the long run.

David asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guys she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. I choose the other guy, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and find him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday she comes to my house knocking, i haven’t even seen her since she told me she didn’t want to be with me. I welcome her inside and she goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she did that to me and NOW wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). She is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us!
Lizbet that was a nice post! =)

Administrator answers:

Its like when a lil kid asks one parent if they can do/go something/somewhere. The parent says no so they go to the other parent to ask. They didn’t get the result they wanted from the first parent so they ask the other in hopes of gettin a different answer from the other.
And for me personally, I don’t like the jerkness or the player part of a bad boy, I like how they are sometimes more exciting, daring and have more pride in themselves and aren’t afraid to stand up from themselves. How hot is a guy when he is being used as a door mat? Most men today in my opinion are lazy, careless & spineless, along with america in general. My bro was able to get a job 3 years ago, didn’t get one until last year because he didn’t wanna “waste” time working. I got my job with in 2 weeks of being my state’s working age.
Plus I hate routines and same old same old.I wanna see the world one day. (im 16 now) I wanna travel and do cool things like sky dive, save lives, climb a mountian, swim with dolphins. I want a guy that isn’t afraid to go somewhere new and isn’t tied down to a job where he is too nervous to tell his idiotic boss off :P usually “bad boys” aren’t tied down, will tell you what they hate about you, and will do stupidly crazii stuff and just cut loose

Donald asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guys she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. I choose the other guy, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and find him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday she comes to my house knocking, i haven’t even seen her since she told me she didn’t want to be with me. I welcome her inside and she goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she did that to me and NOW wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). She is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us! We are NOT captain save a hoe!
Yeah but what happens when the nice guy doesn’t want her?

Administrator answers:

Lol, most women don’t know what they want. It’s usually younger women that want the bad boys, but when they’ve finally matured they know it’s the good guy they want to be with.

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