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October 1, 2012

Mandy asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guys she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. I choose the other guy, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and find him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday she comes to my house knocking, i haven’t even seen her since she told me she didn’t want to be with me. I welcome her inside and she goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she did that to me and NOW wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). She is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us!

Administrator answers:

People make mistakes sometimes. How many guys chase after a pretty face(and a$$) only to find out how angry, demanding and dissatisfied she is all the time, and then realize the pretty face wasn’t worth it?
Yes, she wants help with the kids. And she thinks you can help her. But, like most things, it’s complicated. She probably likes you too. And just because we’re not talking about pure, unconditional love here doesn’t mean you can’t help her. Maybe it could even be good for you, who knows? I’m not saying you have to do anything. It’s your life and your choice. If you think she’s using you then say no, like you did, and tell her to go away. Either way you go it’s OK. I’m just saying relax a bit on the perfectionism. Give people a break. She didn’t recognize who the best guy was for her from the getgo. OK. Many people don’t. But to her credit, she’s one of those people who isn’t so afraid of doing life wrong that they don’t do it.
Tell her how hurt you were that she chose the other guy. Maybe she’ll understand. Work it out.

Steven asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guys she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. I choose the other guy, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and find him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday she comes to my house knocking, i haven’t even seen her since she told me she didn’t want to be with me. I welcome her inside and she goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she did that to me and NOW wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). She is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us! We are NOT captain save a hoe!

Administrator answers:

Well done on standing your ground. However, there is one thing you didn’t do which you could have done to make her regret her actions even more, and it was this: find out local housing benefit schemes for her. The only reason she wants you now is for financial stability, not for you. Listen to her concerns she highlighted to you: losing her appartment and wanting to move in with you. That is not a relationship, it’s a cohabitation and chances are she’s thinking of the relationship with you as a side issue, which is SO unfair.
If you want to do the good thing so you don’t feel like a heartless b******d AND make her regret passing you up, find out the info for her and give it to her and say “There. This should help you for a while until you can find a better job. Have a nice life” and walk away. She’ll be kicking herself for years for passing you up – but you will still look like the decent, genuine guy you always were, just that you’ve grown more of a backbone – and ironically, that will probably make you suddenly very attractive to her!

Sharon asks…

Why do alot of women date badboys on her early years and when she gets old she wants the nice guy at the end?

I’m just saying its dumb! There was a girl who i liked 3 years ago who had a choice between me and some other guy (the guy she ended up marrying). I took her out to dinner and told her if she made up her mind who she wanted to be with. she choose the other guy over me, the next year they got married and had two kids! He was working as a bus driver who got layed off his job. She ended up working at a coffee house because she couldnt finish up her schooling with both of them not working! He was the babysitter and didnt bother looking for another Job. One day she came home from work and found him in bed with another woman red-handed. Him and the other woman ended up moving to Miami leaving her all along with the two kids! So yesterday (after of not talking to her since she didnt want to be with me) she comes to my house knocking. I welcome her inside kinda wondering what the hell does she wants. She sits down and goes on this crying crap saying how sorry she was about picking him over me and she really like me? NOW she wants to have a relationship with me (Basically HELP ME WITH THESE TWO KIDS THATS NOT EVEN MINE). Found out she is about to lose her apt because she cant pay the rent and wants to the kids and her to move in with me?? She must be on drugs, i told her hell no and if she needs to help to go to her family back east! We live in Los Angeles, but why do women always want the niceguys when things dont go their way with the badboys? Its not fair to us! We are NOT captain save a hoe!
@smart and sassy = That is one reason women pick jerks. It is also a challenge. Ok have fun with the challenge then!

Administrator answers:

Captain save a hoe lmao

just phyuck them, raise their hopes the. Toss them like the trash they are

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